We all have habits. Some are harmless, like humming while we work or rearranging our desks. But others can quietly drive people around us up the wall, no matter how small. And the worst part? Most of us don’t even realize we’re doing them.
These everyday behaviors might be rubbing people the wrong way at work, out with friends, or just trying to get through the grocery store. Don’t worry—none of them make you a bad person. But being aware of them? That makes you a better one.
Talking on Speakerphone in Public
Not everyone wants to hear your conversation about car repairs or lunch plans. Speakerphone use in public spaces—like coffee shops, waiting rooms, or grocery store aisles—instantly turns private chatter into public noise pollution. If you must take a call, pop in earbuds, or step aside.
Hovering Too Close in Line
Personal space isn’t just polite—it’s necessary. Standing too close to someone in line can make them feel rushed, crowded, or uncomfortable. Giving people a little breathing room is good manners and good hygiene.
Oversharing on Social Media
Everyone’s timeline has that one person who posts every meal, workout, and passing thought. Constant updates can feel overwhelming or self-centered. There’s nothing wrong with posting—just be mindful of the balance between sharing and oversharing.
Not Using Headphones for Music or Videos
Blasting music or TikTok out loud in public is like forcing strangers to listen to your playlist. It’s distracting and inconsiderate. Always carry headphones—your fellow commuters will thank you.
Leaving Shopping Carts in Parking Spaces
It’s a tiny act of laziness that creates big headaches. Carts blocking parking spots or rolling into cars frustrate shoppers and employees alike. Walk it to the corral. It takes less than 30 seconds.
Being Chronically Late
Running a few minutes behind happens to everyone. But if you’re always late, it sends a message that your time matters more than others’. Chronic tardiness disrupts meetings, meals, and moods.
Interrupting or Talking Over People
Cutting people off mid-sentence might show enthusiasm, but it usually comes off as rude. Letting someone finish their thought shows respect. If you catch yourself interrupting, pause and reset.
Oversized Group Texts
Group texts are great—until they’re not. Especially when someone starts replying “LOL” 47 times in a row. Most people don’t want their phone buzzing nonstop with messages that don’t involve them. Consider who needs to be included before hitting “Send to All.”
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Bragging Disguised as Complaining
“I’m just so exhausted from my fourth trip to Europe this year.” That’s not a complaint—it’s a humblebrag. Most people can spot one a mile away, which rarely lands nicely. Genuine honesty beats a flex in disguise.
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Taking Up Too Much Space in Public
Putting your bag in the seat next to you, stretching your legs far out, or spreading out at a shared table can make you seem inconsiderate. It signals that your comfort matters more than others’. If space is tight, make room.
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